Stories of the Fourth

Fourth of July

The Fourth of July – the day the United States celebrates its independence from the British.  Sure there’s all the technicalities – the Continental Congress passed the Declaration on July 2nd, a majority of states didn’t approve until July 9th, and the final state didn’t sign on until August.  But we have established the Fourth of July as THE day to celebrate.  Even in those first years we Americans celebrated with fireworks – and today we continue that tradition.

When I think of the Fourth, I go back to Cincinnati, when my parents took all of us kids to the fireworks in St. Bernard, Ohio.  Why St. Bernard, a little municipality squeezed in between Proctor and Gamble’s soap factory (“Ivory Dale”) and Vine Street?  Maybe it was Dad’s tradition – it was just down the road from Mitchell Avenue where he grew up.  Anyway, I still remember sitting on a hill watching my first fireworks and worrying about how loud the “booms” were.

No worries now; I am a fireworks guy.  I still stand with my head tilted back – mouth slightly open to catch any wayward mosquitoes — staring in awe.  It wasn’t on the Fourth, but that position got me in trouble at the 1973 Boy Scout National Jamboree.  They must have misjudged how close the crowded kids were to the launch site.  Ashes were raining down on us, and I got a real “taste” for the fireworks.  On the other hand, the booms were never again so close and loud – I liked it!

So here are three stories of the Fourth – mostly about fireworks and locations, but also about celebrating America.

Olympian Fourth 

In the 1980’s I spent several summers learning as much as I could about track and field.  I went to “camps” for athletes, and hung out with the coaches to absorb as much as I could.   One of those camps was at Indiana University in Bloomington.  I got the chance to “hang out” with Sam Bell, one of the top coaches of that era, and his world class  staff. Marshall Goss was a leading national pole vault coach, a high school teacher who coached at the college, and Phil Henson had a PhD in physiology which he applied to his world class jumpers. 

We were there over the Fourth of July, and on that evening, we took the “kids” and staff to see the local Bloomington fireworks.  I sat with the staff.  On one side was Sunder Nix, Olympic Gold Medalist in the 4×400 relay.  On the other side was Dave Volz, a world class pole vaulter who would eventually compete in the 1992 Olympic Games.  They were enjoying the fireworks just like everyone else – and yet they earned the uniform to represent the United States in world competitions.  It brought home to me the reality that great athletes are “regular” folks, enjoying the fireworks and the conversation.  

And it was an honor to realize I was learning from them, and from their coaches.  They were among the best in the world, and they were sharing all that experience and knowledge with a young high school coach from Pataskala. 

Road Trip Fourth

Earlier this year, I wrote about the “road trip” I took with three other coaches. We were in our twenties and decided to rent a van, and set off across the country.  Our route took us all the way to the Oregon coast, down to Mexico, and then back across the nation.  We arrived in Colorado around the Fourth of July, and decided to spend the holiday in Aspen.  

To get to Aspen from our hotel we had to cross over Independence Pass at 12,000 feet in altitude.  So we celebrated the morning of the Fourth with a snowball fight, then headed down to the festivities in Aspen.  They had the big field on the edge of town all prepped for a celebration, and the fireworks set up on the slopes above.  We established our “camp”, then one of the other coaches and I wandered off to explore the town.  One bar led to another, and by the time we got back to our “camp”, the combination of alcohol and altitude made navigation a little rough.

As dark fell, I remember amazing fireworks on the mountain, followed by even more amazing stars.  What I’m not so sure of, is the trip back over Independence Pass to our hotel.  But I wasn’t driving, and we negotiated the winding road safely.

Quiet Fourth

My parents lived an amazing life.  They had sixty-eight years together, madly in love.  They changed how American television worked, raised a family, and travelled the world.  It was only in the last few years that life got sadder.  Mom’s lungs began to fail, and she was tethered to increasing levels of oxygen machines.  Dad started to lose his memory.  So for the first ninety years they were great – for the last few years, not so much.

I don’t quite remember what crisis took me down to Cincinnati that Fourth of July weekend.  Mom was still at home, and Dad was doing his best to take care of her.  It’s really not fair:  the oxygen tanks require tiny washers fitted into the connections.  The hearing aids use the smallest batteries imaginable.  All when eyes are failing, and arthritis binds hands and fingers – no wonder Dad got frustrated.  Mom depended on him, and he was trying his best. 

So I was down at their house quite a lot. I wanted to see both of them, and give them a break from the pressure of taking care of themselves.  After a couple days though, it was time to head home. I left in the evening of the Fourth after dinner, heading back home to Pataskala, an early morning track practice scheduled for the Fifth.  But it was the Fourth of July, and I was a little sad to miss fireworks for the first time – ever.

Small Town Fourth

But I didn’t miss the fireworks at all.  It was a quiet drive up I-71 from Cincinnati – there isn’t a whole lot of traffic on the night of the Fourth.  The top was off the Jeep, and the warm summer air felt good.  And then I got my Fourth of July surprise.

Every small town in Ohio has its own fireworks on the Fourth.  They aren’t the “RED, WHITE, AND BOOM” grandiose celebration of downtown Columbus.  But they are fifteen or twenty minutes long, with a buildup to the “grand finale”. And since the towns aren’t too far apart, they stagger the starting time –  from sometime just after nine until ten.

So I cruised up I-71 in the open Jeep, watching multiple fireworks shows in multiple towns.  There were three finales, and they all seemed to be just for me. Small town America put on a great show.  But my last “finale” wasn’t quite as pleasant.  The kids near the State Route 56 exit were putting on their own show, firing bottle rockets at the passing cars on the Interstate.  That has a whole different meaning in an open Jeep!

The Dream Fourth

That experience led to my “dream” Fourth of July.  I want to rent a small plane (with a pilot, of course). Jenn and I will takeoff just as the sun sets on the evening of the Fourth.  Then we’ll fly out over rural Ohio, watching the fireworks shows from overhead, different towns at different times – and high enough to stay out of the line of fire.  It’s got to be a spectacular view.

That’s my dream – but this year it’s a “regular” Fourth.  The fireworks here in Pataskala are on Saturday night (the Third), and with five dogs in the house, we’re going to stay close to home.  But we’ll get to see some of them – and, in this time of such deep divisions, remember once again the celebration of Independence that unites us.  

Happy Fourth!!!!

Only Justice Won

America’s Dad

Bill Cosby is the fallen icon of comedy and fatherhood who turned out to be a drug inducing rapist. He was released from prison on Wednesday.  It was a shock release – shock to those who thought that Cosby, with a long hidden history of drugging and attacking women, had finally been brought to justice.  And I bet it was a shock to Cosby as well – though he and his counsel played off the decision as if they truly believed justice had prevailed.

There doesn’t seem to be much question that a man that many, including myself, admired for decades, was privately abhorrent.  The evidence is too strong, the number of women willing to accuse him too long, and the stories all too similar to be somehow “made-up”.  It’s clear to the world he did what they say he did.  He used his good name and influence to lure younger women to his home, and then he drugged and attacked them. 

 America’s “Dad” is a pervert.  It certainly is a sign of our times.  But when you get through the disgust and betrayal, there is one more fact that may go unnoticed.  Bill Cosby’s lawyers were right.

The Fifth 

The Fifth Amendment is familiar to everyone.  You have the right to refuse to testify against yourself.  You cannot be forced to risk criminal punishment by answering question “against your interest”.  We all know the Miranda drill:  “you have the right to remain silent, anything you say can be used against you in a Court of Law”. 

The exception is well known after years of Trump subordinates and the Mueller Investigation.  If you have “immunity” from prosecution then those words can’t be used to convict you, and you can be compelled to testify.  We hear about this process daily.  The Trump Organization Chief Financial Officer Allen Weisselberg seemed to be on the verge of an immunity deal, in exchange for incriminating testimony against the Trumps.  He finally turned that “deal” down, and now faces criminal charges himself.  

Immunity

Cosby was never offered immunity.  But the Pennsylvania Supreme Court said he was put in the same position by the then District Prosecutor Bruce Castor.  That name may be vaguely familiar. Castor was the lead defense attorney in the second Donald Trump impeachment trial.  You might remember him for seeming “eccentric”, so much so that Senators who supported Trump caucused immediately after his opening statement to try to “clean” things up.

Castor made a public declaration that he would NOT prosecute Cosby.  In fact, he put out an official media release to make sure everyone, including Cosby and his lawyers, would know.  By making that decision, he fully intended to remove Cosby’s Fifth Amendment protection for a civil proceeding.  Cosby would no longer have “the right to remain silent”.  Under pain of perjury he would be required to answer questions in the civil trial, where he was being sued for the same kind of actions.

Cosby did answer questions in civil court, answers that did in fact incriminate him in the future criminal action.  He was charged by a later prosecutor who didn’t feel bound by Castor’s decision. Cosby’s own testimony in the civil case WAS used as evidence in the criminal case where he was convicted and sentenced to ten years in jail.

Court of Public Opinion

No one believes Bill Cosby is innocent.  But if Cosby’s conviction was allowed to stand, then any time Prosecutors couldn’t get a possible criminal to answer questions, they could simply refuse to prosecute – then change their minds after some civil case when the suspect was required to testify without the Fifth Amendment shield.

It’s hard to imagine anyone who has so squandered the public trust as Bill Cosby.  We’ve been let down before:  Jared the Subway spokesman, PeeWee Herman the children’s show host, the Today Show’s Matt Lauer.  But none of them set themselves up as such a cultural icon as Cosby.  From the sweaters to giving advice to young Black men, Cosby won his spot in America’s consciousness.  And now we know what he was doing to women, at least sixty that have come forward, during his comedic career.  No one is pushing to get Cosby back on TV, or on the stage.  

He will slink away in shame. Folks will speak with outrage about what the Courts did.  But the real failure in this case was not Cosby’s lawyers, nor the prosecutors who followed Castor.  And it’s really not Castor’s fault either.  To give him the benefit of the doubt, he was trying to clear the way for a successful civil action when he didn’t see a winnable criminal case.  

Cosby characterizes this as “justice for all Black men”.  But that doesn’t in any way alter what he did.  The world won’t see him as a victim.  And certainly the sixty women lost once again.  The only winner:  the Fifth Amendment and procedural justice. 

Holy Grail

This is another in the series of stories written by my Mom, Babs Dahlman. This was originally written for “UnQuotes”, a group of Cincinnati Women who got together to share papers and research from the 1960’s through the 2000’s. This is Mom’s writings, and I have only very gently edited it (Marty Dahlman).

Whilst in England last August, I heard a most intriguing story of a recent search for the Holy Grail.  It so intrigues me, that since I have spent many hours reading and studying about the Holy Grail.  I will eventually come back to the fascinating story that I heard, but first, perhaps, I should try and define the Holy Grail.

The Holy Grail is represented invariably as the Vessel in which Christ celebrated the Last Supper.  It is, therefore, a Passover or Sacramental Vessel, and according to the Legend, its next use was to receive the blood from the wounds of Christ when his body was taken down from the Cross.  The Vessel then supposedly was carried westward in safe guardianship to Britain and there remained under successive Keepers.

In the days of King Arthur, Arthur assumed the responsibility of carrying on the Legend, with which object he brought about the Legend of the Round Table and the flower of Arthurian chivalry.  Percival, Lancelot, Galahad and many others set out to find the Sacred Vessel.  Sir Galahad was the noblest and the most virtuous knight in the Legend of King Arthur’s Round Table.  

There was one seat at the Round Table which was reserved for the knight so pure that he would someday find the Holy Grail.  The seat was called Seat Perilous.  One day, Sir Galahad’s name appeared on the seat, and from that time on he occupied that seat.  He saw a vision of the Grail.  The Grail appeared suspended in the air and covered with a cloth.  Stirred by the vision, he went on a search for the Holy Grail and legend has it that he eventually found it.  Sir Lancelot also searched for it, but being morally imperfect, did not find it.

From a very early age, I have always been fascinated by the tales of King Arthur and his Knights, and whenever I go to England, I always make a pilgrimage to a town called Glastonbury where, supposedly, Arthur and Guinevere are buried.  There is something about Glastonbury!

Stand before the place of the High Altar of the Benedictine Abbey Ruins, beneath which are the reputed graves of King Arthur and Queen Guinevere, and you feel the romantic stories of the Round Table must be true.  Pause on the site of St. Mary’s Chapel and you stand where history claims the first Christian Church was built in England, a wattle and daub shed, maybe, but none-the-less the ground is holy.  Enter the vast and once ornate Abbot’s kitchen, with its enormous chimneys and ornamental roof lantern and it is not difficult to imagine the medieval brothers busy at their chores.

Not too far from the Abbey is a garden called the Garden of the Chalice Well.  The garden is terraced on rising ground and the trees and flowering shrubs cluster around the Chalice Well Head.  The Well is fed by a spring which rises from the Chalice Hill.  Legend cites this hill as the place where Joseph of Arimathea buried the Cup used at the Last Supper, which he had carried with him to Britain.  Sailing up the Bristol Channel, his small boat grounded on the slopes of the hill and he thrust his staff, giving birth to the Flowering Thorn.  Water flows from the spring at a rate of 1,000 gallons an hour, at a constant temperature of 50 degrees Fahrenheit, and has never been known to fail.  This is no ordinary water, however, for from the 14th Century until today, healings are claimed to have been due to its influence and it is still used for baptisms.

Down half a dozen steps from the pathway through the garden is a paved courtyard.  Here, the water falls over the stone into a channel reddened by its passage, and thence into a shallow bath.  While scientists attribute the colour of the water to its chalybeate qualities, being rich in iron, religious mystics will see herein a symbol of the Chalice presence. Hence, its alternative name of the Blood Spring.

Three hills can be seen from the garden – Chalice Hill, Tor Hill and Weary All Hill.  The garden lies in the lee of the Tor, on which stands the ruined tower built on the site of an ancient chapel to St. Michael.  The garden itself is laid out over the place where it is believed Joseph had his hermitage of twelve huts.

Legend preserves the story of Joseph and the sacred Chalice, and romance recalls the age old quest for the Holy Grail.  The Sacred Thorn, originally chopped off by a Cromwellian soldier, continues to bloom each winter from a cutting planted in the Abbey Grounds.  In fact, every Christmas a spray is cut from the Holy Thorn and placed on the royal breakfast tray for the Queen and the Queen Mother on Christmas morning.  The only indigenous shrub which resembles the thorn bush grown in Syria, but many slips have been taken from the Glastonbury Thorn and cultivated in English gardens.

History is in this place.  Legend flourishes here.  Its romance has covered many a page.  All being in antiquity and much is beyond mortal proof.  But, there is something about Glastonbury.

And so, I come to the modern day search for the Holy Grail.  Whilst in England this summer, I met an old friend and he told me of his quest to find the Holy Grail.  Unlike King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table, his quest was not fruitless.  For, after many miles and much research, he bicycled down a twisting valley to an Edwardian house in an English village, where in a glass topped case lies the remains of an ancient olive-wood cup that many thousands of people firmly believe is the Chalice of the Last Supper, and therefore, Christianity’s most sacred relic.  Could it possibly be genuine?  It is easy to be sceptical, but the cup has a curious history, and before you judge its authenticity, it is well to go back to the legend entwined in Tennyson’s lines in the “Idylls of the King”:

The Cup the Cup itself from which our Lord

Drank at the Last Supper with his own.

This from the blessed land of Aramat

After the day of darkness, when the dead

Went wandering over Moriah – the good saint

Arimatheaen Joseph, journeying, brought to

Glastonbury.

Where the winter thorn

Blossoms at Christmas, mindful of our Lord

And there awhile it bode, and if a man

Could see or touch it, he was healed at once

By faith of all his ills.

Probably the older of England’s oral traditions – a story passed by word of mouth through generations – is that the Cup used by Christ at the Last Supper on the eve of his crucifixion was brought to this country by Joseph of Arimathea, a wealthy Jew, a friend of Jesus, who helped to bury Jesus in the rock-hewn tomb.  Joseph was engaged in the tin trade which flourished between Palestine and Cornwall in the A.D.  

As I have already said, legend says that he sailed up the Bristol Channel until his small boat bumped to a stop on rising ground among the meres of Somerset, at a place now called Glastonbury, but which was once an island known as Avalon.  He buried the cup there under a spring, and a wattle and daub place of worship was built on the site, which became the first Christian Church of Britain.  

When Joseph died, he pledged his son, Josephus, to guard the secret hiding place of the Holy Grail, as the sacred chalice came to be called.  This he must have done, if the story is to be given any credence at all, for five centuries later, the stalwart figure of Arthur strode into the legend and his court of chivalrous knights were sworn to defend the Holy Grail, though none but Sir Galahad ever claimed to have seen it.

King Arthur was mortally wounded after a battle in the year 542, and was buried with his Queen Guinevere at Avalon.  In 1190, after the monks had established a monastery on the site of the original wooden church, a stone slab was unearthed at Glastonbury with a Latin inscription stating, “Here lies buried the famed King Arthur in the isle of Avalon.”  Later, workmen unearthed an early Celtic coffin – a hallowed out oak tree trunk – containing the bones of a man of giant stature with the remains of a woman at his feet.

Controversy continues to rage at this finding, over the belief that Joseph of Arimathea was also buried there.  But a reliable document in the English College at Rome, written by William Good who was born in Glastonbury in 1527, states that the monks never knew for certain the place of this Joseph’s burying.  They said the body was hidden most carefully and that when it should be found the whole world would wend their way thither on account of the miracles worked there.  Another thing William Good said was that he remembered seeing a stone cross, with a bronze plate on which was carved an inscription relating that Joseph of Arimathea came to Britain forty years after Christ’s Passion with eleven or twelve companions, and that he was allowed by Ariviragus the King to dwell at Glastonbury which was then Avalon in a simple and solitary life.  

So there is some documentary evidence to support the oral tradition, but he made no mention of a wooden chalice.  Nothing further is known of the Holy Grail itself until the year 1539 when Glastonbury Abbey became a victim of Henry the VIII’s anti-monastic power.  The glorious building was despoiled at the brutal hands of the King’s men.  Afraid for the safety of the ancient relic, Abbot Richard Whiting entrusted the sacred Cup into the hands of his Prior and six monks who were told to flee into the mountains of Wales and deliver it into the care of the Cistercian monks at Strata Florida, a medieval abbey situated in Cardiganshire.

As the monks sped northwards and westwards with the Cup, Henry’s soldiers were dragging poor Abbot Whiting on a hurdle to the top of Glastonbury Tor where he was publicly hanged for allowing his brethren to escape with the treasured relic.

On their way to Wales, the brothers rested for a time, according to tradition, at a tiny hamlet called Ozleworth, set among the Cotswold Hills above Wootton under Edge in the Gloucestershire country.  There they placed the wooden cup in a niche in the Church of St. Nicholas, a medieval chapel forming part of Ozleworth Park, now owned by Lieutenant Colonel W. H. Ferguson.

This was verified by a former rector of the church, the Reverend George Worthing, who said that when the Abbey at Glastonbury was threatened, the monks were sent out to hide the treasures, including a wooden chalice which was probably kept in a niche in the tower.  

Although the legend speaks of no other place, it seems likely that the monks would have crossed the River Severn by way of Gloucester, where the Benedictines had an Abbey before Henry’s troops confiscated it. 

Once over the river, the monks pressed deeper into the Black Mountains until they arrived at Strata Florida, fifteen miles from Aberystwyth on the coast of the Irish Sea.  The monks were given sanctuary and were able to hide their treasure for a few years, but Henry’s men were still searching for them, and in due course they approached the Cistercian monastery.  

The monks, ever faithful to their promise to protect the Holy Grail with their lives, were forced to flee again.  They scattered into the countryside and found refuge with an old Welsh landed family, the Powells, Lord of the Manor of Nanteos, a small village in the Paith Valley, three miles from Aberystwyth.  The monks remained there in hiding and safety until the end of their days.

As the last of them lay dying, he handed the Cup to the head of the family, exacting a deathbed promise that the Powells would be faithful custodians of the Holy Grail until such time as the Church shall claim her own.

And so, the Cup remained safely in their hands throughout the years.  After the present Nanteos Mansion was built in 1739, the Cup was occasionally shown to distinguished visitors, such as the poet, A. C. Swinburne, and the famous composer Richard Wagner, who during his stay at Nanteos, is believed to have had the inspiration for his opera, “Parsifal”, published in 1882, a year before he died.  The opera tells the story of Sir Parsifal, a holy knight of the Round Table who helped to save the Holy Grail.

In the 400 years the Cup was at Nanteos, it has been a source of wonder to the country folk around, and talks of miraculous cures abound.  Some have been documented in notes left by the villagers which still are with the cup today.

Most of the cures were dated in mid-Victorian times, but others quite recently, but so few people know of the Cup’s existence and of its whereabouts – a secret all who are pledged to keep.

A family tree in the hall of the Nanteos mansion traces the Powells from the 13th century to the year 1951, when the last of the line died at age 89. 

There was litigation among distant relatives over the inheritance of Nanteos and while this action was being contested in the courts, the olive-wood Cup was removed secretly to the vaults of the bank until Mr. Powell’s cousin, Eliz Mirylees, inherited the estate.  The Cup was once again in the care of the Powell family who guard it today.  In 1967 they sold Nanteos Mansion to the Bliss family and moved, taking the Cup with them – somewhere in England.

It is there after a long search that my friend traced it.  Major James Mirylees, a devout churchman, had died and his wife was too ill to appear when my friend called at the family home.  One of the three daughters, Clementine, kindly admitted him to see the relic.

It is stored in a small wooden case the size of a shoe box with a sliding glass lid.  Approximately five inches in diameter and three inches deep, about the size of a grapefruit bowl, but little more than half of the original Cup remains.  Over the centuries, cure seekers or over-zealous pilgrims have nibbled away at the rim as they drank water from the Cup.

That is why the present owner has so far refused to allow a further fragment to be removed for carbon dating tests which could prove once and for all whether it is 2000 years old.  For some, proof in not necessary.

Only one expert on Palestinian archeology has ever see the Nanteos Cup.  That was the late Sir Charles Marston in 1938.  He would not dismiss the possibility that it was indeed the Holy Grail, but he refused to pronounce on it with any degree of surety for or against.  Since then, the cup has melted further and further into the misty backgrounds of the countryside.  First in Wales, and now in England, as the Mirylees family has tried to find peace from the constant stream of people who, until a few years ago, had bombarded them with heart rending pleas for water from the Cup.

The family was planning to move again to cover their tracks from Nanteos.  Yet, they have never denied anyone the right to see the cup, once the searcher discovered its whereabouts.

The Cup itself is no grand chalice, rimmed with gold and rubies, but a simple wooden drinking vessel.  As such, it seems wholly credible that it could be the kind of plain bowl that Christ would have used for his Last Supper on earth, rather than the grand silver goblet  depicted by artists centuries ago.

No one will know for certain if it really is the Holy Grail, but the many letters testifying to its healing powers make it an object of reverence as well as deep mystery.  

Facts have placed it back as far as Glastonbury – only Faith can take it beyond.

The Holy Grail inspired some of the finest poetry of the Middle Ages.  European poets established the basic parts of the Holy Grail story between about 1180 and 1240.  These poets may have adapted the legend from the tale told much earlier by pagan Celtic people.  The Celtic story described a magic cup that provided food and drink for anyone who used it.

Chretian de Troyes, a French poet, wrote an unfinished poem about the Grail that later writers completed.  Chretian’s became the best known of the Grail stories. His Percival, called “Tale of the Grail” is the earliest known version of the legend.

Wolfram van Eschenbach of Germany wrote an important account of the legend based on at least part of Chretian de Troyes.  His rhymed “Parzival” is considered a masterpiece of medieval literature.

Sir Thomas Mallory wrote “Le Morte D’Arthur”.  He describes the life of King Arthur of Britain and the Knights of the Round Table.  I also includes an account of the Knight’s quest for the Holy Grail.

The American poet, James Russell Lowell, wrote the best known modern story of Launfal, “The Vision of Sir Launfal”.  In this tale, Launfal dreams of searching for the Holy Grail.  Launfal does not find the Grail, but he learns its meaning when he helps a starving leper.  The leper teachers him that the Grail symbolizes charity and mercy.

Or course, the best known of Arthurian tales is by Alfred Tennyson.  His “Idylls of the King”, among which is the Holy Grail, is one on the most popular known.