{"id":2303,"date":"2019-09-17T09:41:30","date_gmt":"2019-09-17T13:41:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dahlman.online\/?p=2303"},"modified":"2019-09-17T09:41:35","modified_gmt":"2019-09-17T13:41:35","slug":"eating-with-the-enemy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dahlman.online\/index.php\/2019\/09\/17\/eating-with-the-enemy\/","title":{"rendered":"Eating with the Enemy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Monday Night Football<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>ESPN&#8217;s Monday Night Football at BW\u2019s:\u00a0\u00a0these are code words.\u00a0\u00a0Monday Night Football, is the NFL game on Monday night. 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